I believe that every one of us are entitled to be with someone. To find your soul mate, the right person, the one. Dating is the way we decide whether this person is right for us. If we just settled for someone who is there, someone who is easy to be with, someone who is easy to love, and someone who we thought is the solution that will lead us to true happiness. Then we are just setting a trap for ourselves.

This fact of life is that “Everything happens for a reason”. It means having patience and having faith on God that he will make it possible for us to find the right person. I believe that we are all going to be with the right person as long as we don’t give up and have faith then we could really find the right one for us. Only time will reveal whether or not we probably made the “right” decision.

If we are getting to know someone and who we don’t see ourselves with them in the future, it just mean he is not the right person for us.

Maybe, he seems okay at the start, but you have this strange feeling, don’t ignore your gut. You may get along at some level, but if your instincts are telling you he’s not the one for you, listen. That little voice inside your head does not lie. You’ll also catch “warning signs” and find it easier to spot the wrong guys at some period of time.

One of the warning signs: a man should never, ever, ever put a woman down. Putting a woman down in any context is bigger than a red flag. Destructive criticism only comes from the wrong guy.

Most of the time when we are with these people, it means that we need to learn something from them and vice versa. In a way it is also an indication for us to know if he is the right person. We want to be happy with the right person right? If he is not the right one then we all need to lead a separate life to find the one that is meant for us.

The right person is worth it. He is worth waiting for. Because the right person is the one good permanent person in your life, someone who knows what you need without saying it, who knows what you think so you don’t have and need to explain yourself, and the best part is someone who just knows how to love you without being told. You prioritize the person and you give them all yourself which is the best part for me.

He gives you the happiness no other man can ever give. It’s when he makes you laugh and smile in a way. Other important men in your life could never give. He’ll simply out stand them whether you both like it or not.

You only see yourself with him in the end or you only see a future with him such as growing old together, having a family with him, having children with him.

Life is so short to spend it on someone who doesn’t really make us happy or making others suffer. We all deserve to be happy. We all need to find the right one.

Love is filled with hope. There’s always a silver lining for those who will seek it.